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From the Two Campaigns to the Treaty of Hudaybiyah
Organization of the Arab Community
After the Battle of the Ditch and the
destruction of Banu Qurayzah, the situation in Madinah stabilized in favor
of Muhammad and the Muslims. The Arab tribes so feared the Muslims that
many Qurayshis began to think that it might have been better for their
tribe to have made peace with Muhammad, especially since he himself was a
Quraysh tribesman and the Muhajirun were all among its leaders and
noblemen. The Muslims felt quite secure after they had destroyed Jewish
power within and outside Madinah once and for all. For six months, they
remained in Madinah during which their commerce prospered and they enjoyed
a spell of peace and comfort. At the same time, the message of Muhammad
crystallized in the minds of his followers, and they learned better to
appreciate his teachings and observe his precepts. The Muslims followed
their Prophet in reorganizing and remodeling the Arab community. Departing
from tradition and reshaping society according to model principles were
necessary steps in the making of that new society that Islam sought to
establish in the world. In pre-Islamic days, the only social system known
to the Arabs was that which their own customs had sanctified. In the
matters of family and its organization, of marriage and its laws and
divorce, and of the mutual relations of parents and childrenin all these
human relations-pre-Islamic Arabia had not gone beyond the elementary
dictates of its hard topography; namely, extreme laissez-faire on
the one hand and extreme conservatism reaching to slavery and oppression
on the other. Islam was therefore called upon to organize a nascent
society which as yet had developed no traditions and looked with disdain
on its heritage of social customs. Muslim society had great ambitions,
however, for it looked forward to becoming within a short time the nucleus
of a great civilization ready for a destiny of absorption of the Persian,
Roman, and Egyptian civilizations. Islam was to give this nascent
civilization its character and gradually to impress it with its own ethos
and brand until, some day, God might find it proper to say of it
"Today I have completed for you
your religion; my bounty and grace have been conferred upon you
conclusively; and I am pleased that your religion shall henceforth be
Islam." [Qur'an,
5:3]
Relations between Men and Women
Whatever the nomadic nature of Arabian
civilization had been before Islam, and regardless of whether or not such
cities as Makkah and Madinah had enjoyed a level of civilization unknown
to the desert, relations between men and women had never extended much
beyond the sexual. According to the witness of the Qur'an, as well as of
the traditions of that age, such relations were determined only by
considerations of class or tribe, and were quite primitive in every other
respect. The women used to show themselves off not only to their husbands
but to any other men they pleased. They used to go out into the open
country singly or in groups and meet with men and youths without hindrance
or sense of shame. They exchanged with men glances of passion and
expressions of love and desire. This was done with such blase frankness
and lack of shame that Hind, wife of Abu Sufyan, had no scruples whatever
about singing on such a public and grave occasion as the Day of Uhud
"Advance forward and we shall embrace you!
Advance forward and we shall spread the carpets for you!
Turn your backs and we shall avoid you!
Turn your backs and we shall never come to you."
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Arab Eroticism
Among a number of tribes, adultery was
not at all regarded as a serious crime. Flirting and courting were common
practices. Despite the prominent position of Abu Sufyan and his society,
the chroniclers tell, concerning his wife, a great many tales of love and
passion with other men without implying any stain on her reputation.
Whenever a woman gave birth to an illegitimate child, she felt no
restraint about proclaiming the identities of all the men with whom she
had had love affairs so that her child might be attributed to the man whom
he most resembled. Likewise, there was no limit to the number of wives a
man could take or to the number of his women slaves and concubines. Men
were completely free to do as they pleased, and women were perfectly free
to give birth as they pleased. The whole domain of man-woman relations had
no seriousness or gravity except where a scandal was uncovered which
brought about disputes, fighting, or libel between one clan and another
within the larger tribe. Only on such occasions did the flirtations,
courtings, and adulterous rendezvous become reasons for shame,
vituperation, or war. When hostility broke out between one house and
another, men and women alike felt free to claim and accuse as they wished.
The Arab's imagination is by nature strong. Living as he does under the
vault of heaven and moving constantly in search of pasture or trade, and
being constantly forced into the excesses, exaggerations, and even lies
which the life of trade usually entails, the Arab is given to the exercise
of his imagination and cultivates it at all times whether for good or for
ill, for peace or for war. Should a man, for instance, pour out his
imagination in the most sentimental and affected forms when addressing his
sweetheart in private, one would think that was normal. But when the same
man readily and publicly pours out that same imagination, in the event of
war against his sweetheart's tribe or in personal disaffection for her, by
describing her neck, breast, waist, hips, and all other aspects of her
feminine form, we must conclude that that imagination knows little more of
the woman than her sex, feminine form, and adeptness at making love.
Despite the decisive blow which Islam had directed at this excessive
cultivation of the imagination, much of it was embedded in the Arab
psychic character described in the poetry of `Umar ibn Abu Rabi'ah.
Indeed, Arabic love poetry has hardly ever been free of this trait; a
measure of it can still be found in the modern poetry of our own day.
Woman in Other Civilizations
The foregoing account may have struck
the reader who is full of admiration for the Arabs and their civilization,
including the Arabs of pre-Islam, as somewhat exaggerated. Such a reader
is certainly excused for so thinking, for he must be comparing the picture
we have given with the actualities of the present age, intermingled as
they certainly are with the ideal relations between man and woman, parents
and children. Such comparisons, however, are false and lead the
investigator astray. If the comparison is to be fruitful, one should
undertake to contrast Arab society as we have described it in the seventh
century C.E. with other societies of the same period. I do not think it is
an exaggeration to say that Arab society, despite all its aberrations, was
far superior to the societies of Asia and Europe. We do not have enough
information to speak with authority on Chinese or Indian society of that
age. But we do know that Europe was wallowing in such darkness that its
family structure stood little higher than the most primitive levels of
human organization. The Imperium Romanum, possessor of the law,
master of the world, and the sole competitor of the Persian Empire,
regarded woman as far more inferior to man than she was in the Arabian
desert. In Roman law, woman was regarded as a piece of movable property,
owned by a man and disposable by him in any way he wished. The Roman male
citizen exercised the right of life and death over his women, and did so
by law. The law enabled the Roman citizen to treat his women as he would
his slaves, making no distinction between them. It regarded a woman as the
property of her father, then of her husband, and finally of her son. The
right of property exercised over her person was complete, just as complete
as the right of property over animals, things, and slaves. Moreover, woman
was looked upon as a source of desire. Like an animal, she was not
expected to have any control over her sex life. Because morality did not
apply to her, it was necessary to fabricate the western artificial
framework of absolute chastity in order to instill a sense of
ethics in man-woman relations. This necessary though artificial framework
furnished the womanly ideal of that society for several centuries
afterwards. It will be recalled that Jesus-May God's peace be upon him-was
quite compassionate toward women, and that when his disciples expressed
surprise at his fair treatment of Mary Magdalene, he proclaimed: "He
that is without sin among you, let him first cast a stone at her." [John,
8:7]
Despite this charitable attitude toward women on the part of Christianity,
Christian Europe continued to deride woman and to hold her in the greatest
contempt very much as pagan Europe had done before. Europe did not only
regard the relation of man to woman merely as a relation of male and
female. It coalesced with this relationship that of owner to owned, master
to slave, and the honorable to the dishonorable and contemptible. These
attitudes have so determined the mind of Europe so long that for centuries
the Europeans have asked whether woman has a soul; whether she is a
morally responsible being; whether she is to render account on the Day of
Judgment; or whether, like an animal, she is devoid of soul, subject to
neither judgment nor responsibility, and entitled to no place at all in
the kingdom of God.
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Muhammad and Social Reconstruction
Led by divine revelation, Muhammad
recognized that there can be no social reconstruction of society without
the cooperation of all its men and women members in mutually helping,
loving, and sympathizing with one another. He realized that no society is
viable where women do not enjoy rights as well as duties, where these
rights and duties are not exercised in cooperation, reciprocal love and
respect, and where men are nonetheless the leaders. To realize these
conditions in Arab society quickly and by force of authority was not an
easy affair. However strong the faith of Muhammad's Arab followers, to
take them slowly forward without exposing them to undue hardships was
surer to succeed than otherwise. Slow progress intensifies the faith of
the adherents and wins more converts, whereas forced progress creates
dissension and weakens the faith of many. The same was true of every
social reconstruction God prescribed for the Muslims. Indeed, the same
progressive reconstruction characterized the religious duties of Islam,
namely prayer, fasting, zakat, abstaining from gambling, eating pork, and
the like. Muhammad began to teach social reconstruction and to define the
rights and duties of men and women to one another by talking about
exemplary instances occurring between himself and his wives which all
Muslims could witness. The veil was not imposed upon the wives of the
Prophet until shortly before the Campaign of al Khandaq, and the
limitation of polygamy to four was not imposed until after that Campaign,
indeed a whole year there-after. It would be interesting to see how the
Prophet anchored the relationships of man and woman to sound foundations
and how he prepared his followers for the equality of men and women under
Islam. Islam wanted its women to have the same rights even as they have
duties. But it wanted these rights and duties to be exercised in an
atmosphere of mutual love, fairness, and compassion, and its men to enjoy
the position of leadership.
Islam Forbids Fornication
As we saw earlier, the relationship
between man and woman among the Muslims of the period, as among all Arabs,
was limited to that of male to female. Fornication, exposure of the
woman's flesh and ornaments in a way inviting molestation by men and
arousing in them sexual desire, dominated the relationship. There was
little or no room for any relationships expressing human spirituality, or
for any communion between man and woman in their service to God. The
presence of Jews and munafiqun in Madinah and their hostility to
the new faith caused many of their men to molest the Muslim women and led,
as in the case of Banu Qaynuqa`, to serious harm and injury to Muslim
women. A great many unnecessary problems resulted from this situation. Had
the Muslim women not exposed themselves outside their homes, thus inviting
fornication, their identities would not have been known to the public and
they would not have been harmed. Had this been the case, the Muslims would
have avoided all these problems and could have made a fair start toward
realizing the equality which Islam sought to realize between the sexes.
This ideal might have been realized even without hardship to Muslim men
and women. It was in this spirit that the Qur'an announced
"Those who harm the believers
unjustly, whether men or women, do great wrong. O Prophet, command your
women, your daughters, and the women of the believers to lengthen their
garbs that they may not be harmed. God is merciful and compassionate. If
the munafiqfcn, those who are ill of heart or cause agitation in
the city do not stop their evil work, We shall give you mastery over
them and the power to terminate forthwith their residence in your midst.
They shall be accursed wherever they go, seized, and put to the sword.
That is the pattern of God, already realized in earlier history and
immutable for ever and ever." [Qur'an,
33:58-62]
With this simple introduction, the
Muslims were taught the necessity of outgrowing the customs of their
predecessors. The Islamic legislation aimed at reorganizing society on a
foundation of pure family life, free of intrusion from the outside. To
reach this purpose, Islam declared adultery a grave sin. In consequence,
the Muslims learned to appreciate the evil inherent in a woman's
fornication and entanglement outside her family. The Qur'an said,
"Command the believers to lower
their eyes and to live a life of chastity. That is better for them, for
God knows what they do. Command the women believers also to lower their
eyes, to live the life of chastity, not to show off their beauty and
ornaments except what must be shown in the course of daily life. Command
them to cover themselves up, not to show their beauty and ornamentation
except to their husbands, their fathers, the fathers of their husbands,
their sons or the sons of their husbands, their brothers or the sons of
their brothers, the sons of their sisters, their women-slaves or
eunuchs, or immature children. Command them not to stamp their feet in
order to show off their hidden ornaments. O Believers, repent to God
that you may achieve felicity.” [Qur'an,
24:30-31]
Thus Islam worked toward the
transformation of man-woman relations into one in which sex is possible
only when legitimate, and illegitimate sexual relationships are condemned
as evil. In all other matters of human life, the relationships of men to
women and vice versa are based on a foundation of absolute equality.
Everybody is a servant of God, and everybody is mutually responsible for
promoting virtue and the fear of God. If anyone stirred the sexual passion
in other people, he would be guilty and obliged to repent and atone to
God.
All this, however, was not sufficient to
transform Arab character and wean it away from its original customs.
Unlike the repudiation of associationism, the tranformation of character
could not be brought about with speed. This was only natural, for once a
material has been given a certain form, it is not easy to transform that
material except slowly and progressively. Even so, the desired change
cannot be too radical. Human life is such that inherited custom and local
traditions knead and mold it into a definite pattern. If this pattern is
to bring change, it must be done slowly by degrees. Moreover, no such
gradual change may be undertaken unless man transforms his inner self. It
is possible for man to change one aspect of himself by removing the
hindrances abetting such change in that aspect. That is precisely what
Islam did with the Muslims when it converted them to the unitization of
God, to faith in Him, in His Prophet, and in the Day of Judgment. But many
other aspects of Arab character, especially the material or social
aspects, were not so radically transformed but remained nearer to what
they had been before Islam. Arab laziness and love of conversation with
women, traits kneaded into their character by life in the desert, were
chronically resistant to change.
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The Prophet's Home and His Wives
In spite of the aforementioned
rectification by the new religion of the relationships between the sexes,
the Muslims did not depart radically from their previous customs. Often,
one of them would enter the Prophet's house and stay there for a long time
enjoying conversation with the Prophet or with his wives. But the Prophet
had no time to spend on listening to each of his visitors, nor could he
tolerate them to converse with his wives and broadcast their gossip.
Seeking to free the Prophet from these minor cares, God revealed the
following verses:
"O Men who believe, do not enter
the house of the Prophet without permission. Do not wait there until
meal time, but eat if food is served. Enter therein if you are invited;
but once fed, disperse and do not tarry. Such gossiping in his presence
harms the Prophet, who is shy to ask you to leave. But God is not shy of
saying the truth. And if you ask the wives of the Prophet for something,
then talk to them from behind a curtain. That is purer and more seemly
for you and for them. It behooves you not to hurt the Prophet of God nor
to marry his wives after him. If you do, your deed will be a great crime
in God's eye." [Qur'an,
33:53]
While this verse was addressed to the
believers, the following was addressed to the Prophet's wives:
"O Wives of the Prophet, you are
distinguished only as long as you are righteous. Do not, therefore, be
soft or tempting in speech lest the ill-hearted fall to temptation. Be
always gentle and good. Maintain your homes with dignity and do not show
off yourselves as pre-Islamic women were wont to do. Observe prayer, pay
the zakat, and obey God and His Prophet. God only wishes to keep you
pure and to remove from you all uncleanliness and temptation." [Qur'an,
33:32-33]
Social Foundations of Muslim Brotherhood
On this foundation Islam sought to
construct the social order of the human community. Its core was the new
relationship between man and woman. By its means Islam sought to remove
the unchallenged dominion sex had hitherto exercised over this
relationship. Its aim was to direct the community to a higher life where
man might enjoy the pleasures of this world without corrosion of his moral
fabric, and to lead man to a spiritual relationship with all creatures
transcending agriculture, industry, trade, and the other preoccupations of
life-the relationship implicit in the life of faith which makes man the
partner of angels. Other means which Islam employed for that same purpose
were fasting, prayer, and zakat-by virtue of what each commands against
adultery, injustice and evil doing and by virtue of what each enjoins by
way of self-purification, submission to God alone, fraternity between the
believers, and communion between man and all that is.
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The Campaign of Banu Lihyan
The slow reorganization of society in
preparation for the great transformation for which Islam was preparing
humanity did not prevent Quraysh and the tribes from lying in wait for
Muhammad. Nor did it prevent Muhammad from taking the requisite precaution
and being always on the alert, ready to strike terror in the hearts of his
enemies should the need arise. A case in point was the campaign of Band
Lihyan. Six months after the destruction of Band Qurayzah, it came to
Muhammad's notice that the Band Lihyan were marching from a locality near
Makkah. Immediately, he remembered the case of Khubayb ibn `Adiy and his
companions, who were murdered by Band Lihyan at the well of al Raji two
years ago, and sought to avenge them. However, he did not announce his
purpose for fear that the enemy might be alerted and take refuge. He
therefore announced that he wanted to go to al Sham and, after mobilizing
his forces, he led them toward the north. When he felt secure that neither
the Quraysh nor their neighbors were aware of his intentions, he turned to
Makkah and proceeded in its direction full haste until he reached the
camping grounds of the tribe of Band Lihyan at `Uran. Some people,
however, had noticed his change of direction, and eventually the Banu
Lihyan were informed of his plan. They took refuge in the heights of the
surrounding mountains, gathering with them their cattle and property. The
Prophet, therefore, could not reach them. He sent Abu Bakr and a hundred
cavalrymen in hot pursuit until they reached a place not far from Makkah
called `Usfan. He himself returned to Madinah on a day that was remembered
for the hardship to the traveller which its extreme heat presented, as the
following tradition clearly states
"We returned and, by God's leave,
we repent to God and praise Him. We take shelter and refuge in God from
the travail of travel, the sadness of tragedy, and the realization of loss
in relatives and property."
The Campaign of Dhu Qarad
A few days after Muhammad returned to
Madinah, a group led by `Uyaynah ibn Hisn raided the outskirts of the
city, seized the camels grazing in the area, killed their shepherd, and
carried off his wife. Apparently, he thought that the Muslims would not
realize what had happened in time to catch up with him. Salamah ibn `Amr
ibn al Akwa` al Aslami, however, who happened to be going that way to the
forest with bow and arrows, beheld the raiders running away with their
booty as they passed through the place called Thaniyyah al Wada near al
Sal'. He followed them, shot arrows at them and called for help throughout
the pursuit. His call was soon heard by the Prophet who alerted the people
of Madinah, and Muslim cavalrymen came out from every direction. Muhammad
ordered them to pursue the raiders immediately, and he followed a little
later with another force until he arrived at the mountain of Dhu Qarad. `Uyaynah
and his companions pressed ever faster toward Ghatafan where they could
find protection from its tribesmen and escape from the Muslims. The
Madinese cavalry overtook the enemy's rear, seized the stolen camels, and
liberated the captive woman. Some companions were prepared to press the
pursuit further and avenge the Muslims against `Uyaynah. The Prophet
advised against this course, knowing that `Uyaynah and his companions had
already reached the tribe of Ghatafan and had fallen under their
protection. The Muslims therefore returned to Madinah bringing with them
the liberated woman and the camels. While in captivity and driving her own
camel, the Muslim woman vowed that should that camel ever bring her back
home, she would sacrifice it to God. When she informed the Prophet of her
vow in Madinah, the Prophet answered: "What a terrible reward you
propose to the camel which served you and carried you to freedom! That is
clearly an evil act, and no vow to perform an evil is valid."
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The Campaign of Banu al Mustaliq
Muhammad remained in Madinah for about
two months, until the campaign of Banu al Mustaliq at al Muraysi`, which
has arrested the attention of every biographer of the Arab Prophet and
every historian. The importance of this campaign lies not in its military
significance, but rather, in the internal division which it almost caused
within the Muslim community, and which the Prophet settled resolutely.
Another important aspect of this campaign is its connection with the
Prophet's marriage to Juwayriyyah, daughter of al Harith. A third aspect
is its connection with the malignant slander of `A'ishah who, though
hardly seventeen years of age, was able to repulse these falsehoods by her
strong faith and sublime character.
The news reached Muhammad that the Banu
al Mustaliq, a clan of Khuza'ah tribe, were mobilizing for war in the
vicinity of Makkah and inciting the Arab tribes around them to assassinate
Muhammad. Their leader was al Harith ibn Abu Dirar. Acting quickly in
seizing the initiative, Muhammad hastened to strike and take them by
surprise as was his custom. The two divisions of al Muhajirun and al Ansar
which rallied to his immediate call were led by Abu Bakr and Sa'd ibn `Ubadah,
respectively. The Muslims encamped near a well called al Muraysi`, not far
from the encampment of their enemies. The allies of Banu al Mustaliq ran
away upon hearing the news of the advancing Muslim army, with the result
that the Banu al Mustaliq themselves were quickly encircled. In the short
engagement which followed, the Muslims lost one man, Hisham ibn al Khattab
by name, who was killed accidentally by a fellow Muslim. After losing ten
men, the Banu al Mustaliq realized that they had better surrender to the
Muslim forces. They were all made captives and their cattle confiscated.
The Plot of `Abdullah ibn Ubayy
`Umar ibn al Khattab had a servant
charged with taking care of his horse. After the Campaign of Banu al
Mustaliq was over, this servant crowded out one of the al Khazraj
tribesmen from the proximity of the well. As they quarreled together the
man from Khazraj called on al Ansar for help; the other called for help
from al Muhajirun. `Abdullah ibn Ubayy, who had accompanied the Muslim
forces on this expedition in order to secure some booty, arose when he
heard the call and, venting his old hatred of al Muhajirun as well as of
Muhammad, said to al Ansar
"Indeed, al Muhajirun have not
only crowded us here but even in our own homes. The case of our
hospitality to them has been nothing short of the common saying, `Feed
your beast and one day it will devour you.' Surely when we return to
Madinah, the stronger party shall force the evacuation of the weaker.
Such is the fate that you have incurred with your own hands. You have
allowed the Muslims to occupy your lands; you have willingly shared your
wealth and crops with them. By God, if you could only deny them these
privileges, they would have to leave you alone and seek somebody else's
help."
The news of this speech of `Abdullah ibn
Ubayy was soon reported to the Prophet of God. Muhammad, satisfied that
operations against the enemy had all been completed, was visiting with `Umar
ibn al Khattab at the time. When the latter heard the report, `Umar
suggested that Bilal be sent out to kill him instantly. With his usual
foresight, patience, experience, and sense of leadership, the Prophet
declined `Umar's suggestion, saying: "O `Umar, what would the people
think if they heard that Muhammad had begun to kill his own
companions?"
Nonetheless, the Prophet calculated that
unless he took some resolute action, the situation might worsen. He
therefore commanded his people to start off on their return to Madinah
despite the inappropriateness of the hour. Ibn Ubayy in turn heard what
had been reported to the Prophet, and he ran to him to deny the report and
to explain that he had never entertained such ideas. This action did not
affect Muhammad's resolution to command the return. He traveled with his
people continuously throughout the whole day and night and most of the
second morning until they could bear the desert sun no longer. As soon as
the people dismounted or sat down, they were so exhausted that they fell
asleep. Their exhaustion caused them to forget the affair of Ibn Ubayy;
and after they had rested, they hurried to Madinah carrying the captives
and booty from Banu al Mustaliq. One of those captives was Juwayriyyah,
daughter of al Harith ibn Abu Dirar, the leader of the vanquished tribe.
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Ibn Ubayy's Resentment of the Prophet
After his return to Madinah with the
victorious Muslims, Ibn Ubayy could not reconcile himself to their
success, and his resentment of Muhammad and the Muslims stirred with
unabated vigor. His hatred continued despite his apparent adherence to the
faith and his emphatic claim that what was reported to the Prophet at al
Muraysi` was false. It was on this occasion that the Surah "al
Munafiqun" was revealed in which we read the following verses
"It is the munafiqun who
counsel against spending anything for the benefit of the Muhajiran so that
the latter may get out of Madinah. But it is to God that all the treasures
of heaven and earth belong. The munafiqun are simply ignorant. They
threaten that when the Muslims return to Madinah, the stronger will force
the evacuation of the weaker. But they do not know that might belongs to
God, to his Prophet, and to the believers." [Qur'an,
63:7-8]
Some people believed that the revelation
of these verses was a verdict of death passed on Ibn Ubayy and that
Muhammad would soon command his execution. Upon learning of this
revelation, `Abdullah, son of `Abdullah ibn Ubayy, who was a true and
loyal Muslim, ran to the Prophet and said: "O Prophet of God, I have
heard that you are seeking to kill `Abdullah ibn Ubayy because of reports
which have reached you about him. If this is true, I ask that you command
me to do the execution, and I promise to bring to you his head forthwith.
By God, it is known that nobody supported al Khazraj tribe as my father
did. Should anyone else besides me kill him, I will have to suffer myself
to see the murderer of my father go about without avenging him. But I
cannot bear such a torture, and the results may be that I will kill the
murderer of my father, thereby killing a believer and incurring eternal
punishment for myself in hell." Such were the words of `Abdullah ibn
Ubayy's son to Muhammad. It is hardly possible to appreciate the struggle
within `Abdullah's soul of filial loyalty, genuine faith, tribal chivalry,
concern for the preservation of peace, and the prevention of blood feuds
among the Muslims. Though he realized that his father was going to be
killed, he did not plead to save the condemned life. He believed that the
Prophet does what he is commanded by his Lord, and was absolutely certain
of his father's treason. But his filial loyalty, personal dignity, and
Arab chivalry demanded that he avenge the death of his father. Hence, he
was prepared to undertake the killing of his own father, however such a
deed might rend his heart and expose his conscience to ruinous
self-reproach. He found consolation for his tragedy in his own faith in
the Prophet and in Islam. This faith convinced him that if he were to
follow the voice of Arab chivalry and filial piety and kill the
executioner of his father, he would incur eternal punishment. His was a
sublime struggle between faith, emotion, and moral character; and his
tragedy was beyond comparison. After hearing his plea, the Prophet
answered: "We shall not kill your father. We shall be kind to him,
and we shall appreciate his friendship as long as he wishes to extend it
to us."
The sublimity and greatness of
forgiveness! Muhammad was touched and he stretched forth a kindly hand
toward the one who had incited the people of Madinah to rise against the
Prophet and his companions. His gentleness and pardon were to have far
greater effect than punishment. After this episode, whenever an occasion
arose for the Muslims to criticize 'Abdullah ibn Ubayy, they used to
remind him that his very life was a gift Muhammad had made to him. One
day, when the Prophet was conversing with 'Umar on the affairs of the
Muslim community, the criticism ibn Ubayy was meeting from his peers was
mentioned. Muhammad asked 'Umar : "Had I commanded him to be killed
the day you advised me to do so, many men would have never entered Islam.
These same men, were I to command them today to kill him they would do so
without hesitation." 'Umar apologized and acknowledged the Prophet's
superior judgment.
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`A'ishah at the Campaign of Banu al Mustaliq
All the foregoing took place after the
Muslims had returned to Madinah with their fruits of victory. Something
else had happened on that expedition which was far removed from military
affairs and concerning which there was little talk at first. The Prophet
was in the habit of drawing lots among his wives whenever he went on an
expedition, and would take in his company that wife whose lot happened to
be drawn. On the occasion of the campaign of Banu al Mustaliq, it was the
lot of 'A'ishah that was drawn. 'A'ishah was petite, slim and light; her
presence inside the palanquin in which she rode was hardly noticeable by
the men who would lift it for placement on camelback. As the Prophet and
his expeditionary force were returning to Madinah after their long and
exhaustive journey, they camped not far from Madinah in order to spend the
night and recover their energies. At dawn or before, Muhammad gave the
sign to resume the travel. `A'ishah had stepped out of the Prophet's tent
while her palanquin was placed at the entrance of it that she might ride
therein and travel be resumed. On her way back she realized that she had
lost her necklace. She quickly retraced her own footsteps, looking for the
lost necklace. It took her a long time to find it. She had had very little
sleep the previous day, and it is possible that she might have fallen
asleep in her search for the necklace. At any rate, by the time she
returned to her tent, she discovered that her servants had disappeared
with the palanquin and that the whole company had vanished into the
desert. Apparently thinking that `A'ishah was inside for there was hardly
any difference in its overall weight, the servants attached it to the
camel's back and proceeded unaware that the "Mother of the
Believers" was left behind. `A'ishah looked around herself, and
though not finding anyone, she did not panic; for she believed that her
people would soon discover her absence and would return to seek her. She
judged that it would be better for her to stay where she was rather than
to strike out in the desert on her own and risk getting lost. Unafraid,
she wrapped herself in her mantle and laid down waiting for her people to
discover her. While she waited, Safwan ibn al Mu'attal al Salami, who had
been out of camp on an errand in the desert, returned to camp to find that
he had missed his companions who were already on their way to Madinah.
When he came close to `A'ishah and discovered that she was indeed the wife
of the Prophet, he stood back surprised and angry that she had been left
behind. He asked her why she had been left behind and, receiving no reply,
he brought her his camel and invited her to ride on it. `A'ishah rode on
the camel and Safwan rushed toward Madinah as fast as he could, hoping to
join the Muslims before their entry into the city. The Muslims, however,
were traveling at a very fast pace, purposely commanded by the Prophet of
God in order to keep them exhausted and unable, as it were, to bring to a
head the old hatreds between the various Muslim factions which `Abdullah
ibn Ubayy had been fomenting. Safwan arrived at Madinah in full daylight;
`A'ishah was riding on his camel. When he reached the Prophet's house, `A'ishah
dismounted and entered her home. No one present ever entertained any
suspicion of unusual behavior on anybody's part, and the Prophet himself
never suspected either the daughter of Abu Bakr, or Safwan, the loyal
Muslim and pious believer, of the slightest misdemeanor.
Considering that `A'ishah entered
Madinah during the day and in front of everybody, and that her return was
soon after the return of the Muslim forces, nobody could entertain any
suspicion as to her behavior. She entered Madinah bearing her usual pride
and unperturbed by any feeling of guilt. The whole city went about its
business as usual, and the Muslims occupied themselves with dividing the
captives and booty which they had seized from the Banu al Mustaliq. Their
life in Madinah was actually becoming more prosperous as their faith gave
them more power over their enemies. Their faith had reinforced their wills
and had encouraged them to think lightly of death, whether in the cause of
God and of His religion, or in defense of religious freedom which they had
earned after such a long and hard struggle against their own fellow
tribesmen.
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Muhammad's Marriage to Juwayriyyah
Juwayriyyah, daughter of al Harith, was
one of the captives of the Banu al Mustaliq. She was a noble and
attractive woman and her lot fell to a man of al Ansar. She sought to
ransom herself but her captor, knowing that she was the daughter of the
leader of the Banu al Mustaliq, demanded. a very high price which he
thought her people were capable of paying. Afraid of him and his ambition,
Juwayriyyah sought the Prophet in the house of `A'ishah and, announcing
her identity as the daughter of al Harith ibn Abu Dirar, chief of the Banu
al Mustaliq, she asked for the Prophet's assistance in ransoming herself
from captivity. After listening to her story, the Prophet thought of a
better fate for her. He suggested that he ransom and marry her as well.
Juwayriyyah accepted his proposal. When the news reached the people,
everyone who held a captive of the Banu al Mustaliq granted that
particular captive his or her freedom in deference to the new status the
new captives had acquired as the in-laws of the Prophet. `A'ishah had said
of her
"I know of no woman who brought as
much good to her people as Juwayriyyah."
Such is the story according to one
version. Another version tells that al Harith ibn Abu Dirar came to the
Prophet to ransom his daughter, and that after talking to the Prophet, he
believed in him and declared his conversion. The same version tells that
Juwayriyyah followed her father and was converted to Islam, whereupon the
Prophet asked for her hand and offered her a dowry of four hundred dirhams.
A third version tells that her father was not agreeable to her marriage to
the Prophet and that a relative of hers intervened and gave her to the
Prophet against the will of her father. Muhammad did in fact marry
Juwayriyyah and built for her a room adjoining his other quarters by the
mosque. By this, Juwayriyyah became one of the "Mothers of the
Believers." While still busy in the aftermath of the wedding, some
people began to whisper about `A'ishah's delayed return to the camp
mounted on the camel of Safwan. Safwan was a young and handsome man.
Zaynab, daughter of Jahsh, had a sister called Hamnah who knew too well
that `A'ishah was preferred by Muhammad to her own sister. It was this
Hamnah who began to broadcast gossip about `A'ishah. In Hassan ibn Thabit
she found a helper and in `Ali ibn Abu Talib, an audience. `Abdullah ibn
Ubayy found her gossip of inestimable value in dividing the community and
satisfying his hatred. He therefore spread the news in the market places.
Al Aws tribesmen defended `A'ishah' however, for they knew she was an
example of nobility, chastity and purity. This story and the gossip to
which it gave rise almost led to civil war.
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'A’ishah's Illness
When the gossip finally reached the ear
of Muhammad, he felt deeply hurt. He could not believe `A'ishah would
violate her marriage vows. Such indictment was impossible. `A'ishah was
pride and purity personified. She enjoyed such fervent love and strong
affection from her husband that the mere thought of accusing her was the
greatest crime. Yes indeed! But then, woe to women ! Who can ever
understand them or reach with certainty to their inner core? `A'ishah was
still a child. For, how could she lose her necklace and then retrace her
steps looking for it in the middle of the night? And why didn't she say
anything about her loss when she came to the camp? These and other
questions bothered the Prophet; he did not know what to believe and what
not to believe.
As for `A'ishah, nobody dared inform her
of the people's gossip. She noticed that her husband was unusually laconic
and unfriendly to her, a departure from his usual tenderness and
preoccupation with her. She fell severely ill and was attended by her
mother. But when Muhammad visited her, he hardly said any more than,
"How are you?" Indeed, noticing this coolness on the part of the
Prophet, `A'ishah asked whether or not Juwayriyyah had now taken her place
in his heart. These strained relations being too much for her patience,
she one day asked her husband's permission to move to her parent's
quarters where her mother could take care of her. After permission was
granted, she moved to her parent's house all the more alarmed at this new
expression of unconcern. She remained bedridden for over twenty days, and
no knowledge of the gossip spreading around her was ever brought to her
notice. The people continued to gossip and annoyed the Prophet so much
that he found himself obliged to mention the matter in one of his
speeches, "O Men," he said, "why are some of you staining
the reputation of my family by accusing them falsely? By God, the members
of my family have always been good. Why are you staining the reputation of
one of my companions whom I know to be good and who has never entered my
house except in my company?" Usayd ibn Hudayr rose and said, "O
Prophet of God, if the false accusers are our own fellows of al Aws tribe,
we promise that we shall put a quick stop to them. But if they are of the
tribe of al Khazraj, then command us and we shall obey. By God, to
whichever tribe they belong, they are worthy of having their heads struck
off." Sa'd ibn `Ubadah commented on Usayd's proposition that the
latter had made it because he knew too well that the false accusers
belonged to al Khazraj tribe. A spirit of civil dispute and strife hovered
over the whole community that took the Prophet's wisdom and sound judgment
to dissipate.
The Gossip and `A'ishah
The gossip finally reached `A'ishah
through a woman of al Muhajirun. When she learned of it she almost
collapsed in alarm. She cried so hard that she felt as if she were falling
apart. Despondent and dejected, she went to her mother and blamed her with
broken voice. "May God forgive you, O Mother," she said.
"People talk as they do and you do not inform me of it?"
Realizing her anguished state, her mother sought to alleviate her pains
and said, "O, my daughter, relax and take things lightly. Surely,
hardly ever has a beautiful woman such as you, more loved by her husband
than his other wives, not been slandered and gossiped about by those
wives." `A'ishah, however, was not consoled by this. It began to dawn
upon her that the Prophet's coolness and disaffection which had recently
replaced his gentleness and affection must have been the result of this
gossip and of the suspicion which it has caused. But what could she do
now? Would she openly discuss the matter with him? Would he believe her if
she swore to him that she was innocent? Or would she acquiesce in the
false accusations and seek to offset them by her faith and pleading? Would
she show him the same cold shoulder which he had shown her? But he is the
Prophet of God, and he has loved her more than any of his other wives. It
is surely not his fault that the people have gossiped about her delay in
returning to the camp and her return to Madinah with Safwan. Would to God
that she could discover some way of convincing Muhammad of the truth so
that the real facts might be made clear once and for all and that Muhammad
would return to his old love and gentle treatment of her!
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The Revolt of `A’ishah
Muhammad was not in a better position.
The gossip of the marketplace had hurt him so much that he was forced to
consult on the matter with his personal friends. He proceeded to the house
of Abu Bakr and there called `Ali and Usamah ibn Zayd to join him. Usamah
denied all that had been attributed to `A'ishah as falsehood and lies. He
claimed that the people had no more knowledge of any inclination to
disloyalty on the part of `A'ishah than he had. On the contrary, they knew
as much about her loyalty and innocence. As for `Ali, he answered, "O
Prophet, women are many. Perhaps you might get some information out of the
servant of `A'ishah, loyal as we all know her to be to you." The
servant was called in and `Ali immediately seized her and struck her
painfully and repeatedly as he commanded her to tell the truth to the
Prophet of God. The servant, however, continued to deny all the gossip and
assert that she knew nothing but good as far as `A'ishah was concerned.
Finally, Muhammad had no alternative but to put that question directly to
his wife, asking that she confess and tell him the truth. He went into her
room and, in the presence of her parents and another woman of al Ansar, he
found her and that woman crying together. As he entered the room, `A'ishah
could see the suspicious look on his face and this cut most deeply into
her heart. The man whom she loved and adored, the man in whom she
believed and for whom she was prepared to lay down her life, loved her no
more. On the contrary, he suspected her. As she composed herself, she
listened to him say: "O `A'ishah, you have heard what the people are
saying about you. Fear God. If you have done an evil such as they say you
did, repent to God for God accepts the repentence of His servants."
No sooner had he finished than 'A'ishah sprang to her feet, her tears
completely vanished, her blood rushing to her face. She glanced at her
father and mother hoping that they would speak out for her. But when they
remained silent, her rebellious spirit could hold her tongue no longer.
She shouted to the top of her voice addressing her parents: "Don't
you answer? Won't you speak out?" Despondently, her parents replied
that they had nothing to say. At that moment `A'ishah broke out in tears,
and this seemed to temper the fire of the storm raging within her. Her
tears drying again, she turned suddenly to the Prophet and said: "By
God, I will not repent to God because I do not have anything to repent
for. If I were to agree with what the people are saying, God knows that I
am innocent and that I would be admitting that which is not true. And yet
if I persist in my denial, you do not seem to believe me." After a
pause, she said: "Rather, I shall say to myself as did the father of
Joseph of his lying sons: `Patience and more patience. God is my refuge
against what you describe.'"
Revelation of `A'ishah's Innocence
Silence reigned for a while; nobody
could describe it as long or short. Muhammad had not moved from his spot
when revelation came to him accompanied by the usual convulsion. He was
stretched out in his clothes and a pillow was placed under his head. `A'ishah
later reported, "Thinking that something ominous was about to happen,
everyone in the room was frightened except me, for I did not fear a thing,
knowing that I was innocent and that God would not be unjust to me. As for
my parents, when the Prophet recovered from his convulsion, they looked
pale enough to die before the gossip was proven true." After Muhammad
recovered, he sat up and began to wipe his forehead where beads of
perspiration had gathered. He said, "Glad tidings! O `A'ishah, God
has sent down proof of your innocence." `A'ishah exclaimed, "May
God be praised." Immediately Muhammad went to the mosque and there
read to the Muslims the verses which had just been revealed to him.
"Those who brought forth this lie
and spread it are some of you. However, do not regard this, O Muhammad,
as an evil. You may yet draw good therefrom. Everyone of those who
spread the lie shall have his share of due punishment. As for him who
has taken the chief part in that gossip, his will be the greatest
punishment . . . . When you heard the great lie, you thought that it was
unbecoming of you to listen or to respond to it, and you condemned it
saying, `Holy God, that is a great calamity!' God admonishes you never
to do such a thing if you are believers. He, the Omnipotent, the
All-Wise, shows forth His signs to you. Those who like to see immorality
spread among the believers will receive a painful punishment in this
world as well as in the next. God knows and you do not." [Qur'an, 24:11,
16-17]
It was on this occasion that the
punishment for false accusation of adultery was promulgated through the
revelation of the following verse
"Those who falsely accuse chaste
women of adultery and do not bring forth four witnesses to this effect
shall be flogged with eighty stripes and their witness shall never be
admitted as evidence in any matter. Those are the decadent, the
immoral." [Qur'an,
24:4] In pursuit of this Qur'anic injunction, Mistah ibn
Athathah, Hassan ibn Thabit, and Hamnah, daughter of Jahsh, who had spread
the false accusation of `A'ishah in the marketplace were flogged eighty
stripes each, and `A'ishah returned to her rightful place in the house as
well as in the heart of Muhammad.
Commenting on this event in the life of
the Prophet, Sir William Muir concluded: "The whole career and life
of `A'ishah before that event as well as after it furnishes unquestionable
evidence that she was sincere and innocent. There should therefore be no
hesitancy in rejecting every report of malconduct imputed to her."
Despite his grave misdemeanor, Hassan ibn Thabit repented, made amends
with Muhammad and was able to win back the latter's friendship. On the
other hand, Muhammad himself asked Abu Bakr not to deny Mistah ibn
Athathah the kindness which he used to extend to him. Henceforth, the
whole event was forgotten in Madinah. `A'ishah's health improved rapidly,
and, after returning to her quarters in the Prophet's residence, she
recaptured her favorite position with him and with all the Muslims. Thus,
the Prophet was able to devote all his energies to his message, to the
administration of policy, and to preparing himself for the events leading
to the Treaty of Hudaybiyah that would bring to the Muslims new and
certain victories.
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